it is bigger than sexual abuse. it's about how she survives as a victim, even though trauma has become part of her and she is too grown-up not to let it go. deeply touched.
“I'd like to begin this story by telling you something so beautiful.”假好人远比真坏人可怕这部电影更多是从“受害者”内心去剖析使用交叉叙事的手法让已经是成人的女主不断回到过去回忆、追溯甚至于儿童的自己对话从而引出事实的真相“自己以为的爱情却原来是披着爱情外衣的性侵”本片女主之所以会认为那段回忆“so beautiful”也是因为心理上的自我保护机制比如女主在男友翻看自己儿时信件时拒绝用“受害者”来称呼自己坚称那是自己的初恋可见其保护机制之深也从侧面表现出教练的可耻行径真的很“高明”真真是应了中国那句老话“别人卖了你你还帮别人数钱”行的是性侵幼童之实打的是真爱难寻之名